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ash's avatar

truly think people should read this before rushing into their relationship and making their whole life surrounded by their partner. you said it, and i'll repeat it again, "Your relationship should add to your life, but not be your life."

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Unpacking this in therapy…'s avatar

I love this actually. The realism of it all. A relationship should not be a solution to be happy. It should only make you happier. You lived life without them, during them and after them. Life goes on. Just hopefully you find someone to do life with. All of it. The taxes. House hunting. Being able to miss them, thats a honor. I can’t miss you if I’m with you all the time. I need my space, as they need theirs. We merge when we want. I love that.

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